Every break up brings about pain and depression. It is important to have someone, or something, that can help you move on and be happy again. Yes, that is what our friends are for. Friends are there to help you recover from a bad break up and ease the pain that you are going through. They are there to cheer you up and make you feel happier and realize that the burden of a break up is not that much. However, our friends have lives too. They cannot be there all the time to cheer you up and to comfort you. It is only yourself who can help you move and let go of the person you once loved.
To keep you company while recovering from a break up, aside from your friends, there are certain stories and quotes that you can read. These quotes can help you make the conscious decision to let go. It can inspire you and make you stronger.
Let us look at some of the inspiring break up quotes
“When one door closes, another opens; but we often look so long and so regretfully upon the closed door that we do not see the one which has opened for us” – Alexander Graham Bell
When you lose the person you love, all you can ever think about is how to get that person back. You rack your brain over and over again thinking what you could have done better to avoid the break up. You are too focused on getting the person who is already gone. You try everything to get him back and to be in a relationship with him again. You are too focused on the past. Because of this, you fail to see what is in store for you. You fail to see that there is a life ahead and that you need to move on and face whatever lies ahead of you. You somehow miss on the good things that can happen. Do not wallow too much on the misery of a break up. There are so many things in store for you in the future.
“I was never one to patiently pick up broken fragments and glue them together again and tell myself that the mended whole was as good as new. What is broken is broken, and I’d rather remember it as it was at its best than mend it and see the broken pieces as long as I lived” -Margaret Mitchell
It would be natural to try to fix things that are broken. Even relationships are being fixed when they did not work out. It may be hard to accept, but you have to. The relationship has ended and it has been broken already. It would be better to remember the good old times, learn from the experiences that you’ve had and move on. Take whatever positivity you can from the previous relationship. Not all things that ended can be fixed. You just have to accept that it would be better to remember a relationship that was happy than try to fix it and have a life full of bitterness and regret.
There is something beautiful about all scars of whatever nature. A scar means the hurt is over, the wound is closed and healed, done with. – Harry Crews
Every break up leaves a scar in your heart. The scar contains all the past memories may it be happy or sad, the learning experiences, the wisdom you have gained, and the person you once loved. They are all there to remind you that you were once in that position. What is good about scars is that you know when it is a scar already, the pain is gone and the wound has already healed. With that said, you have moved on.
We must embrace pain and burn it as fuel for our journey. – Kenji Miyazawa
Every break up brings about pain and misery. Others wallow over these. But the wise thing to do is make the most out of this pain. Use it as a tool to move on, and to learn from it. Learning from the pain and the mistake that you did would help you become a more mature and better person. It will help you make better decisions in life in the future.
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